something like BUT I ALREADY BOOKED THE CHAPEL FOR OUR WEDDING!!! Assuming that a coffee date will deitfinely last 5 hours AND having a clear step-by-step plan, AND losing your shit when things don't go according to plan is, indeed, loony.3.) However, that raises a question: why is SHE the one making the plan? That sounds as if you were a bit more passive in the planning department and she took the lead. If that's the case, well, there's your problem. Might be that she also always makes the [Expand]
plan. Starts talking to a guy, they hit it off, he says So do you want to get together? She says sure, he then says Ok, what do you want to do? and she runs with that. That would actually explain a lot of her But I had 27 different things planned out for today! reaction. I'm not saying her expectation of blowing coffee into a full fledged 5-hour-and-then- we'll see what happens date is reasonable, mind you. Just that the sequence of events makes sense, and to a certain extent, if you let her make the plan, that's where the problem came in. Now, if you're the one who said Let's do coffee. I know this great place on 25th St. that serves these badass begniets. You ever had a begniet before? You'll love em, and she just made up some fantasy date for herself after that, then she's SERIOUSLY nuts, but if she's the one who made the plan .well she's still nuts for the degree of her reaction and how much she assumed, but you did set yourself up for a fall.
something like BUT I ALREADY BOOKED THE CHAPEL FOR OUR WEDDING!!! Assuming that a coffee date will deitfinely last 5 hours AND having a clear step-by-step plan, AND losing your shit when things don't go according to plan is, indeed, loony.3.) However, that raises a question: why is SHE the one making the plan? That sounds as if you were a bit more passive in the planning department and she took the lead. If that's the case, well, there's your problem. Might be that she also always makes the [Expand]
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